Ego tests bonds by pushing away — ready to heal the fear of abandonment? ~Crystal Wind

To continue our series on taming the fears of the ego, today's topic is abandonment.

The ego has a deep fear of abandonment. Because of this, it can push people to see at what point they will be abandoned, testing the waters to see if those around them will abandon them or not. It is seeking reassurance and safe attachment so it can drop its guard and settle into a more comfortable state of being.

The Cycle of Separation

Yet the ego itself practices separation with its us vs them mentality. It can reject quickly as a knee jerk reaction and continuation of the overall fear of abandonment by abandoning others quickly and without warning or wisdom. It tries to take control by abandoning first to mask the fear of being abandoned.

Creating Inner Safety

So today we ask you, how can you create safe space for the part of you that fears abandonment. How can you reassure it and make a vow to always be there for it? As it starts to trust your consistency, it no longer feels the need to abandon others and this will allow your nervous system to settle.

How many times have you tried to abandon your ego self? Is it time for you to completely accept it as an essential part of you as a human being in a body? Can you stop trying to abandon it and instead guide it with wisdom and reassurance? This powerful shift will allow you to experience unity within yourself as well as being an anchor of unity for the planet.

The ego seeks only the love your conscious self can freely give.

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