Sanhia: Escape Mental Prison – Part 2: Unlocking True Freedom

Wednesday, 01 October 2025 Written by Ulla Lindgren Views: 5383

Good Now!

Participant: You have described how to find the outer freedom, can you say more about how to find the inner spiritual freedom?

It would be nice if I could give you a blueprint for how to do this, but it is going to be different for each one of you. I can offer some general pointers. The first one is that if there are things that you feel you should do, that they are the right things to do, that you need to do, that it's not safe to not do ... Stop it! Don't do it!

On Saying No to “Shoulds”

Participant: What do you mean that I shouldn't do?

That in your mind you believe you should be doing. That everyone says that it's the right thing to do. You'll be a financial or emotional disaster if you don't do this. You'll lose everything if you don't act as you are supposed to. The first thing is to stop doing that. I'm not so naive as to believe that a person is going to be able to stop on a dime doing everything they feel they should be doing, but nonetheless you make that commitment. Then you begin cutting and cutting.

Participant: Tell me more about this commitment.

There are two steps. First you don't do things you are not guided by your heart to do. If you have spent your life ignoring your heart while doing what society expects from you, this may present an enormous challenge. You have no practice in it. It may be difficult to even hear your heart. All you hear are these voices of fear. The first step is to have the willingness to hear your Divine personal will, to begin to turn this ship around, to begin to be guided by that voice. If you can't hear your inner voice, create space for it. You create space by letting go of things you know it isn’t; the things you truly don't wish to do. This doesn't mean you need to quit your job today. It doesn't mean you have to do anything. But, if the job doesn't bring you joy you will probably leave it sooner or later. The creating and filling of that space is the second step. Maybe you start in a small way. Here's an example: the grass is growing and could be cut. The neighbors’ lawns are all better trimmed. In addition, theirs are free of the dandelions and weeds that spread across yours. The mind says that you should go out and mow it, perhaps also finding a way to eliminate those pesky dandelions and weeds. Does the heart wish to cut the grass today? If it doesn't, don't do it today. Facing the judgment of others, not to speak of your own, will put you through great emotional upheaval.

Freedom and Fear

Participant: So don't follow the fear or act from it.

Be aware each day where action is triggered by fear. As you stop trying to be a "good girl" or a "good boy" space will open up in your life, the space that was filled with acting from guilt and a sense of duty. Don't fill this space with more obligations. This is a space to play in. Enjoy it. Slowly find things you have been wanting to do but have denied yourself. This is not a space for judging what is practical, good, or right. The only filter is whether you feel like doing it. Is there at least a modicum of passion present?

You have been taught to believe that you are little, that you are a sinner, that others need to show you the way, that you lack the wisdom to choose for yourself. Is any of that true? That is a prison. You hold the key. You commit to not accepting all of that anymore. You open the door and let yourself move toward the love and the light and the joy that you wish to know and experience.

Children, Adults, and Freedom

Participant: It sounds like when you are grown up you can have this discernment: is this what I want to do, is this my freedom? How is it for a child? Is there freedom for them also?

You notice how everyone is different. Some children acquiesce when confronted with the discipline adults ask from them, saying "Yes ma'am" and "Yes sir" and trying to be "good". Some rebel and refuse to cooperate; they won't play the game. Why do some claim freedom while others don't? We could look at many reasons for that, but the audience receiving this message now are not children, so we could say that it doesn't matter. On the other hand, it could be said that much of the audience is still acting like children, still trying to do the right thing or perhaps living in rebellion. Those who rebel may not be any freer than those who cooperate. Rather than being free to do as they wish, they may be controlled by a need to oppose, to fight, and to do the opposite of what is desired by others, rather than listening to their heart. It could also be suggested for those of you who are no longer children, but occasionally or more often find yourself in their presence – that you could try two things. First, do your best to allow the children to follow their hearts as opposed to trying to imbed in them your thoughts of who they should be and what they should do. You will not have much success there if you are not allowing such freedom for yourself. Children will be more influenced by your actions than your words. So, let yourself out of jail. Second, you can consider the possibility that perhaps the children are the teachers and you are the student. They likely are in greater contact with their passions and act more frequently on them. The socialization project of mass consciousness has not yet been completed. Let yourself play with them.

The Nature of Divine Freedom

Participant: Why is it good to choose freedom? Where will it take me?

If you can think back to being a child and playing, just playing ... there was no reason for your playing. There was no goal involved. You were simply acting out the joy you wished to express at that moment. That is all that was there. There was no meaning, no reason for your play. There was no sense of something you had to accomplish, something you came here to do. There was not likely such a mental awareness as this, but you were simply God expressing through a human body whatever was desired to be expressed. You were absolutely free to play with that in any way that you were moved to do.

Participant: As a grown-up does it lead me to freedom to follow my inner divine voice?

It does not lead to freedom; it is freedom. You are free to do that. Nothing can stop you from that except you. When you act from a motivation of joy rather than fear, you are expressing freedom. It is not leading you to freedom. You have always had that freedom. But you haven't necessarily chosen to exercise it. The mind often draws a line limiting your freedom. You can do this, but not that. That is going too far. Really? Says who? It is only a belief that draws these lines, that builds the walls of this prison. These beliefs are not imposed from the outside. They are chosen and re-chosen in the present by you. If you allow yourself to follow your inner voice you will find it to be in constant movement and change. The joy that guides you in the present doesn't lead anywhere. Where does the weather go? Does the weather have purpose? It constantly changes and expresses. So do you. You learn from everything you express in the present, from everything you do. Your computer is constantly being reprogrammed. You may decide not to try that one again, or you may have a "Wow!" and want to go that way again. Of course it will never be the same way again. Everything changes. You may be inspired to tweak it in a certain way.

Freedom in Practice

Participant: So the freedom is realized when you have the guts to not follow what the fear would have you do, but to just face the fear until it's gone and then choose from your passion.

I couldn't have expressed it better, but the proof of the pudding is in the eating. So, to conclude today’s conversation, we will make reference to the all-American game of Monopoly. You land on "Chance" and draw a card. It reads "Get out of jail free". This card is my gift to you now, and this particular card has the magic to be reusable. Anytime guilt, shoulds, victimhood, or fear come to you, play this card.

Participant: Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Good Now!

Sanhia/Spirit

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