Adama: Relationship Evolution

Category: Channelings and Spirit Messages Tuesday, 04 July 2023 Written by Possidonius Neto

The Path to Self-Love and Harmonious Unions.

Dear brothers! AM ADAMA!

Today I will comment on chapter 8 of the book One of Telos.

Today we will have another friend with us: Ahnahmar, but he will not speak here. I only comment that he is a great teacher for us and has been with us since a long time before the sinking of Lemuria. I will comment on the Temple of Love. This temple is where our religious ceremonies of union between soul mates take place. There is not much to comment, just that in our society mutual respect and love are the feelings that unite 2 people. The big focus today will be commenting on your relationships.

Why is it so difficult in your world to have someone by your side, full and complete? First of all, because you didn't learn to love each other, to respect each other. You look abroad for the things you lack; you see this complement in the other. There's the big problem. The needs of each of you must be met by yourselves, never by the other.

The great learning is in loving yourself deeply, until you don't need anyone to fill what you lack; you are enough, you love yourself and make yourself happy. This is a difficult state of evolution for you on the surface, because you were taught to unite with those who supply what you lack, not out of true love, not out of that love that comes when love for yourself becomes complete. This is the right time for everyone to find their soul mate, their twin flame.

I would say that in your society, especially women, they were led to believe that they should always be submissive, that they had no value, that they had no right to anything, and this happened until very recently. At the present time, women have risen, but unfortunately the vast majority still see themselves exactly as I said; they see the marriage and no matter what they go through, they need to keep it standing, until the last days.

So I ask a question: God the Father/Mother is pure Love; Is Father/Mother God happy to see a child being unhappy? The answer is clear, but you let yourself be dominated by your religions and you don't allow yourself this happiness. But on the other hand what happens? You seek and find someone to fill your needs; each of you is looking for someone to fulfill you. But living together shows that this is not enough, because it does not fulfill all needs, and the others begin to take on weight. Then you separate and look for another and this movement is happening constantly. There is no connection for pure and simple love, there is a connection for the lack, for the scarcity of what you do not feel in yourselves.
So why, instead of looking outside, don't you look inside yourself? That's what happens to most of your young people. They are souls with a different conscience, because they are evolved, but precisely because of the mismatch with the world they live in, they try to find in the other, a way to appease their needs, and in the name of a supposed freedom they unite sexually in an unregulated way and without love, making all those needs only increase, because that moment is so ephemeral, so empty, so devoid of beneficial energy, that nothing is given to you, on the contrary, it leaves you more and more empty. And that young man tries over and over and over and over to fill that void, but it will never be filled, until a day comes when someone fills a part, and there's that illusion that there's love there and they come together,

The consciences of men and women in relation to relationships need to evolve. Men need to learn that they are not superior. Women need to learn that they are not inferior. Father/Mother God is the balance of masculine and feminine, so men and women are the same. No one is superior to anyone. No one is inferior to anyone. This imbalance is what has brought your society to the level it is today, with so much mismatch, so many separations, so much violence, mainly against women because they are rebelling, they are saying enough is enough, but men still don't accept it because they see themselves as the dominant one, as the one who cannot be contradicted, as the one who has control of everything and does not accept being challenged.

There will be a time when you get to the level we are at today, where people stick together for love. And as you saw in the book, there is the connection and the commitment. The connection is two souls that come together, but without the aim of having children, they come together to evolve together, to learn from each other, and if later on they find that there is no longer that flame holding them back, they separate and follow other paths . But with a big difference, there is no revolt, there is no pain, both separate and remain happy because they had that relationship teaching them a lot for a long time, but they separate without any problem and will have new connections.

Until one day they find those who effectively complete them and then they assume the commitment to live for eternity. For these couples, yes, they are allowed to have children. The birth of a child is prepared and planned, it is not like in your world that there is no planning, and children are exposed to all sorts of difficulties due to the irresponsibility of those who generate them. I would stay here talking for hours and hours and hours, explaining, showing, trying to make each one of you understand what a healthy relationship is; is one where each respects the opinion of the other.

There are contrary ideas, but neither prevails, because that's how it has to be. A consensus is reached and no one feels victorious or loser. There is growth in both, there is a constant attempt at balance and especially respect, because when respect for each other ends, there is no longer a relationship, there is no more union, and many live in this type of relationship for many years, becoming unhappy. and not bringing any kind of evolution to himself.

Father/Mother God's goal for every being on Earth is joy and happiness. And joy and happiness are possible for each of you. The day you fulfill every need you have, but by yourselves, with the inner change, with the change of thought, with actions, but all done by you and never by another, you will find balance. If you need the other to live, you won't be happy with him, because you don't love yourself, you put yourself down to think you'll be happy, you won't be. It is necessary that you do not need anyone to be happy, it is necessary that the union be of souls of total compatibility in everything that both learned, but that one does not need the other; they're together because they love and respect each other, and if tomorrow one wakes up and feels like they don't need to be there anymore, that's fine, each one will go their own way,

These are not easy concepts for you to accept. Many here are shaking their heads in the negative, but I only have one thing to say, this is the future, and if you find it so difficult to live within this future in this way, the walk will become very difficult for you. So I just guide you: start reviewing your paradigms, start reviewing your concepts, but mainly it's not believing in what I'm saying, it's starting to love yourself deeply.

And when you know that you love yourself deeply and that you don't need anyone to make you happy, then in that moment you will be complete and people will be attracted to your life, but you can also break those connections at any time, without pain and no revolt. Are you ready to live it up? Think about.

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