Category: Pet Friendly Paths Written by Sofia Falcone
Today I want to write about Philosophy from a lighter yet quite beneficial perspective. I am an animal lover and quite often feel despite the fact they are not human, they often can teach us the most about humanity.
I am not going to romanticize every aspect nature and the animal kingdom, for that would be naïve; after all, nature on its own can be quite cruel–without meaning to be so–it is jut how life unfolds. At times, it is good to look at the lighter side of things; otherwise we would succumb to sarcasm, callousness or depression; but it is never good to deny reality as is.
I used to go through animal shelters and adopt animals who had been there a long time and whose chances of being adopted were pretty close to null; it wasn’t charity, it was a symbiotic relationship– I provided them a comfortable home and shower them with love, in return they provided me with a sense of family and unconditional love–something I rarely experienced before. It was an honor to care for them until their last days; through it, I learned to understand the complexities of their behavior. I often hear people say “they are just animals…led only by instinct”–I don’t think they realize that in saying so, they are indirectly admitting the sad fact, that we as human beings still have a long way to go in learning how to balance ourselves and the world. After all, animals rarely inflict the type of sadistic pain we often find within our human society; the majority of the time, they use violence only to eat or to prevent themselves from being eaten.
I believe that sometimes things happen for a specific reason…the other day as I took my dog for a long walk, I came across and elderly gentleman who had a box of books on his front yard. As I perused through them, I came across a book by John Gray “Feline Philosophy: Cats and the Meaning of Life”–being the owner of two strong character felines, the book rose my curiosity…that book is the foundation for this piece.
Since time immemorial, human beings have lived fascinated by the way cats exist. Cats very rarely do anything that does not serve a specific purpose or that does not provide them with pure pleasure. Their way of being in the world is one of being contemplative, easy going but also stubborn, realistic and practical; quite a contrast with our human foolishness… always in search of unattainable ideals to make us feel “valuable” or “worthy”–cats know they are those things and more, and do not need anyone to validate them.
Herodotus; whom was an ancient Greek historian and geographer from the Greek city of Halicarnassus, part of the Persian Empire; described that when an Egyptian house burned in flames, its inhabitants cared more about their cats than about their properties. The Egyptians had good reason to wish for cats to accompany them on the journey to the underworld, for felines know only how to live until they are on the very threshold of death–cats do not allow themselves to be subjected to fear of the end: they live in the present and surrender to it with placid intensity-this may seem like a contradiction, but in reality, it is a great lesson about balance. It is no wonder then, Egyptians wanted this determined felines to accompany them, for they trusted their furry friends to guide them through the land of the death without any fear….just another adventure. It is then not by chance, that the cult of cats began very early, and it is known that already by the fourth century B.C, there was a “temple of the living cat” in the necropolis of Hermopolis.
Aristotle, defined that reason has always been the fundamental defining characteristic of humanity–based on his logic, we are “rational animals.” However, it is in failing to understand the distinction between the human soul and the human spirit, and how we are made up of more than just one facet or nature, that has lead to either: anxiety over a desired to be holy; in which state, usually people succumb to dogma in order to find momentary peace. Or there is an over praising of the intellect, to such a degree that we have declare war to other aspects of our nature–the ancient realization that we need every single aspect in order to transmute the maya (illusions) we live in, has not hit home yet.
It is from this obsessive desire to prove that we can be “rational” that fictions such as good, evil, love, hate, justice, injustice, attachment detachment have all come to be the center or our existence and do not let us live in peace. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying there aren’t things which are black and white; such as the principles of life and rhythm (primordial laws) and actions which violate the free will of others–however, for the most part everything is perception, yet like mad men we fight against it and try to declare ourselves the only owners of the absolute truth. In such mad rat race, we are always aspiring to achieve something (usually external) that almost never arrives, or if it arrives, it often disappoints because of the child like expectations we already held within our rational minds. The part of self which is the human animal never ceases to aspire to be something it is not, with the frustration that this fact entails–this of course doesn’t mean we should not strive to expand, but expansion and a cookie cut version of being someone greater, are totally different concepts.
Cats, on the other hand, do not need rational philosophy or rational thought–their philosophy is their way of life; which by the way, is strictly unique to each; for cats know very well how to connect with others without ever given up their individuality. Cats just follow their nature, usually calm but attentive; they are peaceful animals who know how and when to stand for themselves. Meanwhile, humans relentlessly pursue the old Disney world version of happiness, which does not exists–for life isn’t about waiting for someone to rescue us, nor is it about a life full of external pleasures. Cats, on the other hand; while there are no threats around them; spend their time installed in a peaceful tranquility, a state in which they encrypt their present and their well-being. Such state is balanced by moments in which they are active, attentive, filled with energy and intensity–they truly know how to enjoy.
Some reviews of John Gray’s book, state that it teaches people to simply not care about anything, and that it only contributes to the problem. In some instances, I would be inclined to agree; if someone were to read the book without the proper objective, which is balance. It all comes down to each individual, whether or not you seek to balance your life or to escape it. Ultimately however, we should not dive into philosophical or abstract concepts with fanaticism and the desire to find a formula that takes away our own self responsibility.
John Gray defends in his book, that perhaps philosophy is nothing more than a symptom of our permanent anxiety to find the truth for the impossible. I could say that both religion and philosophy respond in their own unique ways to calm our theoretical and spiritual nervousness, and should not be used to replace our own ability to think and feel for ourselves–they are guides not laws.
“Far from representing a sign of their inferiority, the absence of abstract reasoning in cats is a mark of their mental freedom.”–Gray further testifies that we humans, praise our intellectual buildings and live subject to linguistic fictions (being, finitude, eternity, etc.). To him, the great human burden is precisely our rational condition. This is where I use my own rationale, just because I agree with a lot of points found within his book, does not mean I am gullible enough to blindly accept every point he makes. I would have to differ, for I feel that in that regard, Mr. gray is speaking from a place of modern spirituality or new age positivism; which as I have said in the past, has proven to be nothing more than a band aid–one that is needed for specific moments but which is not the solution. Animals have proven; in their own way; to be masters of the abstract–or as he at times calls them…fictions–they simply don’t succumb to the burdens of it.
Contrary to what is usually thought, it has not been humans who domesticated cats; they simply allowed us into their world and chose to become part of ours. One could in humor say, that it is they who have chosen to domesticate us, because thanks to their contact with us, they have stopped depending on hunting to survive, even if they are still born hunters. If they had to abandon their human companions, they would soon resume their natural status as predators. Simply put… we make their lives more comfortable. In contrast to dogs, which we have domesticated, cats interact with us as if we were their equals (or even their inferiors, a kind of subjects who worship and feed them); they may come to love us in their own way, but in the depths of their being they distinguish themselves from us, because they always maintain their independence.
Cats don’t submit to humans because they don’t need leaders. Each specimen on its own, is a born leader: “They neither obey nor venerate the people with whom so many of them currently cohabit. Although they now depend on us, they remain independent of us. If they show us affection, it is not an interested affection. If they don’t enjoy our company, they leave. If they stay, it’s because they want to be with us,”
While humans spend our lives repressing our nature, cats freely and cheerfully follow theirs. On many occasions, cat are despised by some people because they live with an apparent indifference to those who take care of them: we feed and entertain them, and in many cases we only get from them their enigmatic company. If we “treat them with respect, they give us genuine affection, but they will not succumb if we leave. Without our support they soon become feral again”–although they show little concern for the future, they are quite well equipped to survived it.
Cats never get bored because they are not seeking to constantly be amused; they love who they are, so they don’t seek to escape their own company. If they don’t find stimuli around them, they have enough with themselves: they groom themselves, contemplate their surroundings, or simply sleep. As Arthur Schopenhauer explained, contrary to cats, humans defend and encrypt our existence in a pendulum that goes from pain to boredom. On the other hand, cats are always content being what they are–being themselves–they don’t need to be like every other cat to be part of the cat community, nor do they care to do so.
On the other hand, human beings are constantly martyred trying to find happiness (which we long for but do not reach, because happiness like every other emotion is exactly that, a momentary feeling, not a state of being–we really need to learn to differentiate contentment from happiness). Fleeing from our own instincts, we label ourselves as sinners and self flagellate; this on top of letting others judge and condemn us for our gentle sins, as if everyone else was except of them. Or on its opposite, we delude ourselves of our so called sanctitude, and look down at everyone else while living in a world full of denial, lies and the cowardice to face our own shadow. Cats however, don’t care to label themselves one way or the other, instinctively they know they are both, something we as an specie really could benefit in learning.
TIPS CATS COULD GIVE US……THESE TIPS SHOULD BE LOOKED AT, AS A WAY TO BALANCE THE OTHER SIDE LIFE, INSTEAD OF SEEKING TO ESCAPE LIFE….
- Live in the moment and don’t drown in worries about things that will surely never happen. Life is not a story, but what happens in that story. If you think you can write your life from beginning to end, you’ll face frustration.
- You don’t have to love and agree with every other human. Learning to be indifferent is also a virtue, because you will live with more tranquility, this will organically promote you to be kinder to those around.
- Seek pleasure for pleasure’s sake. Sleep if you feel like it. Stroll for the pleasure of strolling. To look for a utility in everything is the principle of slavery.
- Stop caring what others think of you or worrying about their intentions; better, attend to your own ends and serve yourself. They don’t have to like or accept you, and you don’t have to care. If their intentions are bad, you have the right and duty to defend yourself.
- Stop chasing happiness because you may never find it. The important thing is well-being. Don’t spend your life running after chimeras. Today is what matters. Now it is the only possession.
- Do not pretend to convince any human to be reasonable, for everyone believes themselves to be in possession of the truth and no one will believe they are wrong. Live without getting angry or defeated by the presumptuousness of others.
- There is no need to find meaning for everything. Things happen, and that’s enough. Whoever seeks to justify everything through creeds and fictions, ends up sticking to them to the point of becoming a slave.
- Chill, you don’t need to be uptight to be focused. It’s not true that you don’t have enough time, rather, you don’t manage it as you should. When its is time to focus, be totally in that moment, then let it go…you did your best. Always let your moments of relaxation, exceed moments of physical and mental strenuosity.
When humans say that our goal in life is to be happy, we imply that we are actually unhappy, since we seek what we lack. This constant confusion of contentment with happiness always causes stress and always places happiness within an unattainable mirage–in the future, on the horizon, and we wait for it to be realized at some point. Meanwhile, as Seneca has already pointed out, while anxiety about what never comes breaks through, life escapes us.
I passionately believe one person can make a difference. I write from my own experiences and interests. It is my greatest hope that by writing about my own challenges and hopes, others may feel inspired to believe more in their inner power and to fully embrace themselves.
Reprinted on crystalwind.ca with written permission from Sofia Falcone.
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