Dear Ones, do you give yourself permission to be honest with yourself about what your true preferences are? What is working in your life for you? What is not?

Allowing yourself to be aware of something you do not care for is not being ungrateful or spoiled. Did you parents insist you not be true to your own feelings for just this reason? Were you conditioned not to acknowledge your true likes and dislikes in order to not displease others?

You are the expert on you. You are on the planet to create and add to the mosaic of the whole through your own unique interests and preferences. In order to do so, you must get in touch with how you really feel!

If something is not your match you are not bad or ungrateful. It is just not for you. You can simply take forward what is working for you and leave the rest behind. It is simply about energetic sorting. Your focus and gratitude indicates what you would like to continue. The rest you can simply say, “It’s not for me” and move on without making it, or yourself, be bad or wrong.

Your experiences always have a starting point and you get to adjust them along the way. If you understand that what wasn’t working for you gave you the clarity on how to proceed, you can allow yourself to move forward without guilt into the creation of an even better match, knowing that to do so is both your divine right and your contribution to the whole. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young