The need for validation of self-worth, happiness, joy and bliss, FROM EXTERNAL sources, and the reliant Attachment of identity to this external validation, is the never-ending cycle of suffering. And the reason you keep incarnating.

True Joy, Self Worth, Love, Happiness and Bliss is from within. The Inner world within you, which is quiet, which is not attached to anything, except the experience of KNOWING that YOU ARE, is all that you can Know. And you Can experience this Pure State of BEING as the ETERNAL Joy, Love, Happiness and Bliss that you ARE Eternally.

YOU cannot experience this through attachments to the external world outside of yourself. And any attachments you HAVE (where you have placed YOUR IDENTITY and its worth to you) always leads to suffering. RECOGNIZE all those things you can’t let go of, such as, the item that you can’t let go of, the money that you can’t let go of, the relationship that you can’t let go of, the house that you can’t let go of, and the Need For things externally to BE a certain Way, ARE the CAUSE of suffering.

Why is this? You have searched and are seeking for what you Desire, through the EXTERNAL WORLD.

Sort of like looking for love in all the wrong places. When you are Present in the Moment, You experience the true you. The Eternal YOU. And until you have a DEEP one on ONE relationship with YOURSELF, your Being, and LIVE in That~ Your Eternal PRESENCE, you will not find the PERMANENT Solace, Peace, Love, Happiness, Joy, Bliss and Ecstasy that you Long for and Desire, that is not moved by anything.  This is the Internal World of Being. The inner you, within your Heart.

Yes you Can enjoy that relationship, that money, but you know it will change. Everything changes. You know it passes and you REST in the inner peace and joy that is the  true Sustenance~ Residing in the Present Moment.

This is 5th Dimensional Consciousness~ and it REQUIRES you to let go of your SUFFERING. Let go of Your Attachments. And enter what is NOW. And Be Present. 

YOU are NO LONGER reliant on that “thing” whatever it is that you have given validation of your worthiness too.

You no longer ASK why you are suffering, as YOU no longer are SEEKING externally. And you no longer suffer.

You rest within.

You experience peace within.

You experience Love within.

You experience Joy within.

You experience Bliss within.

And it is not dependent ON anything. Ever. Because you ARE.

You KNOW you ARE.

That is all you can truly KNOW. That you ARE.

That is enough.

You Have arrived.

You Are the Joy within that you desire.

You are the Love within that you Desire.

You are the ONE you have waited FOR.

When you let go of all of your Attachments to what being worthy is to you, that the 3D consciousness thrives on, you free yourself to BE PRESENT with what IS. You free yourself from judgement. Judgement is non acceptance of the moment.

IN 5th Dimensional Consciousness you THRIVE ON BEING PRESENT. You thrive on everything as it is Now. You Know that you ARE. And you rest here, in the eternal, inner resting place, of Unconditional Love, within You. You accept, you allow, You Love yourself wherever you ARE. And it is all Now. There is Nothing to do. Only to BE. And in this do I hold you, Eternally.

Eternal Love and Bliss~ Dear Souls!

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