I hear you.  I hear you.  Everyone’s like you just got done telling us that’s what we need to do.  Here’s a little bit of that what if.  Control is something that comes from your mental body and from your human experience.  When you speak, or when you seek to have the vibrational frequency or alignment with what you said to have, that’s coming as an intrinsic, unconscious, vibration that generates from your divinity. 

Therefore that communication that you have is here within your Higher Self and your divinity and then it flows through you doing anything that it needs to do in your reality.  As this is happening there maybe clues that come your way in your life.  It is those clues that can help you go in one direction or another.  It is sometimes not recognizing those clues for what they are that creates that separation within the individual and keeps things from manifesting.