Dear Ones, again we say you cannot kick another up the stairway of enlightenment, nor can you berate yourself into the full expression of you. True growth and healing can only occur in a safe environment. It may be that the safe environment only exists within initially, but it is creating a foundation which can then support growth and change outwardly.

Creating safe connection points that bridge divisions, both within yourself and with others, and leading with love and compassion are far more efficient ways to get where you wish to go. The abuse must end in order for the true healing to take hold, and that begins in all ways with you. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young