Channeled Message: Embracing Your Independence and the New You
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Dear Ones,
What was is no more – including you.
Perhaps you have not noticed the shift in your being or actions, but others have.
You are no longer so willing to accept the dictates of others. And you do not care that your new ideas and actions might make others uncomfortable.
This new thought process is surprising you as well as others.
Most often, when you voice your displeasure, others are willing to change their actions or words. If they are not, you are no longer that interested in interacting with them.
Those who disagree with your new actions and words were likely not that important to you. Perhaps they were a co-worker or neighbor. Or maybe they were emotionally closer to you than that, but are no longer.
It is as if you have placed a screen in front of your being that can only be entered by those few willing to pass through that screen before interacting with you. You are no longer that easily motivated or willing to do almost anything to retain a friendship or interaction.
You have placed personal barriers around yourself, letting others know that you value your time alone and are not willing to accommodate those who demand your consent to their thoughts and actions before they do the same for you, or never acquiesce to you.
You now know what you need deep within you and are willing to inform others if they do not encourage you to be you.
Perhaps this message makes you nervous because you are not accustomed to expressing your wants or needs to others. Or maybe you are finding your voice without a concern. It does not matter, for you are a new being with new needs and wants. And those not willing to accept who you are becoming will not be in your orbit for long.
This is your independence, for you have accepted enough of the new you to demonstrate and vocalize who you are. It does not matter how close you once were with those you now interact with. What is essential is that they lovingly accept the new you. If they do not, you will not be that interested in interacting with them. Or perhaps you will interact with them, but on a much less intimate level, as they fall from best friend, mate, or favorite co-worker to just another being with whom you interact.
Some of you will be frightened as you read this message, for you have images of being isolated because your need for independence is so unlike your 3D need to be part of a group, even if that group did not necessarily meet your needs.
Independence is in. Acquiescing for the sake of any kind of interaction is out of the question for who you have become. For those of you who feel the need to test that concept but are afraid to do so, you will discover that those beings who have become foreign to you will also find it challenging to connect with you. Your frequencies no longer synchronize.
As a result, some people will no longer feel the need to interact with you, any more than you wish to interact with them. At the same time, others whom you have avoided or perhaps have not yet met will become part of your new circle. Or you will discover you do not wish to have anyone in your circle.
This is not only independence of thought but also of action.
What once was is no longer. What will be is formulating within your being at this very moment. Allow yourself to grow, as you have in every previous 3D life, knowing that your current growth is happening in different directions with vastly different outcomes.
Fear is no longer your learning goal. Love is the most crucial concept for all who wish to accept it.
So be it. Amen.
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