Honoring the self is very important. Honoring the choices you make is as important as honoring the experiences you are going through.

There is no right or wrong. Your choices are yours to make. There are no shoulds, there is freedom of choice.

We never label anything you do as good or bad, we see it all from the eyes of love. You are allowed to explore every avenue, that is why you are here, to explore it all. Therefore there is no right or wrong, there is no one way.

It is important that you honor every choice you make so you stop second guessing what is right and what is wrong, and follow your heart. You make it right for you and let it be at that. There are many voices telling you what to do, what is right, what you should be doing, and while all of them are well meaning, none of them are in your shoes.

It is very important to honor the self, no matter what you are going through. To honor the self is to honor the experience the self is choosing to have, knowing you are not the experience.

It is important to honor all of you, to have compassion for yourself, to trust yourself, for no one else will do it for you. And when you can do that for yourself, it becomes easier to honor someone else, to feel compassion for someone else, to accept their choices as being theirs.

So start today and start now, and honor your every choice, knowing it is yours to make and despite what anyone else may say, there is no right or wrong here. And when you are ready for something different, you will know it. There is no point forcing anything, so allow yourself to be where you are, and acknowledge your desire for more. Allow where you are to be right, no matter how it looks, no matter what someone else says.

Honor yourself, honor your journey, honor your experiences, your every choice, and then you won’t need to fight anyone or anything anymore.

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