A Certain Flexibility of Mind and Spirit
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One of the things ego tells you is that one you call other is a certain way.
They are one certain way, and that way is the same as all you call other. In their beingness, they are eternally holy, innocent, and blessed. In their beingness, they have the ability to bless all. In their beingness, they all shine. So that is the one certainty of them all together.
Now look toward the ego’s certainty of evaluating, analyzing, and categorizing persons, bodies, and pasts. You do not need this certainty. It offers no foundation or stability at all. You are safe in letting it go entirely, because it can only mislead you. Yes, it is an accustomed reflex to attempt to judge the other, but it will never help. Sink into the abundant help that is always here for you, and learn its reliability. Learn that what truly helps you always helps all.
Relationships as a Mirror of Help
All relationships are beneficial. In all relationships you can feel this edge, this jab, this effortful pulsing forward when you are relying upon ego. Feel it. Notice it. It is all to your benefit. Because here is help, and what is here to help you is here to help all, always. The help that is here guides you all harmonically (seemingly forward) together in a way that never calls on ego’s analysis or judgment.
You truly do not have to stop to figure someone out. But you truly do have to stop to orient toward the beautiful reality of the beings you are with if you want to be happy and shown the way together in equality and mutual celebration.
From Wrongdoing to Wrongthinking
If you believe ego thoughts, they make the world you see and experience. This world, originally designed for suffering and dedicated to death, is now a tool in Spirit’s hands. Spirit can use the entirety of this world to demonstrate your divine sibings’ eternal innocence, to show you how you and all are blessed, to make clear to you all how deeply loving you have always been.
Just allow the the set and the stage and all components of the drama to be used on behalf of the happiness of all, and you have no problems.
You can change your focus from wrongdoing to wrongthinking. If it appears that one over there has done wrong, the appearance was made by thoughts you believe. The technology of viewing drama is always very, very simple. As long as you don’t place warring powers in the seemingly separate components of the drama, you can see this.
There is only one power, the power of goodness-without-opposite, and it belongs equally to all now. Have some willingness to see this demonstrated to you, and you will look upon very direct communications to you and all that attest to your shared innocence and blessedness.
A Certain Flexibility Enters
When you change your focus from viewing wrongdoing to seeing wrongthinking in your own mind, a certain flexibility enters. All components of the drama become suddenly very malleable, and they are all allowed to serve all in harmonious ways.
Wherever your thinking still resists the flexibility of all components of the drama, a light will shine upon this for you so you can rest and reorient toward what is real and present and truly helpful to all.
Think about what would resist all components of the drama suddenly aligning themselves harmonically in joy and love. Only that which seems to gain from finding wrongness and defect in something seemingly outside of itself.
But if there never truly was any wrongness or defect, if it was only perceived and experienced but never truly created, then is there any reason to hold back a true and clear reflection of what you all are together forever?
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