“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We are very familiar with the ways that you all have of setting yourselves up for failure and disappointment. We see you doing it all the time, and we know that most of you are doing it for the purposes of sparing yourselves from a major letdown. We also recognize that this particular process of putting yourselves in the position to fail is one that you have learned from others. You take on the vibration of those around you if you do not know enough to reject certain notions and not allow yourselves to be overcome by the vibrations of those around you.

But it doesn’t have to be this way anymore, not at this point in your lives and in your spiritual evolution. You can see these self-defeating thoughts, beliefs, and patterns of behavior as what you decided you wanted to overcome in this life. There is a natural tendency to want to do better than your parents and grandparents and aunts and uncles did. And certainly there is hope when you are young, but that hope can be snuffed out by those around you who want very much to save you the trouble of getting your hopes up. So how do you break the familial cycle of putting yourself in a position where the expectation is to not succeed?

Well, as we said in our previous transmission, you can see yourself as a Source Energy Being, and in that way you are holding space for yourself to succeed. But that can be easier said than done. We want to give you some practical steps for putting this philosophy, this approach to life into action. And so, here those steps are.

First, you want to make peace with this setup. Make peace with your family and how they unintentionally squashed all of your hopes and dreams. Second, become aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and patterns of behavior. Awareness will take you very far in all areas of life. Now, thirdly, once you have that awareness, you can see these self-defeating ideas as words that are floating around you. They exist in your field, and they are easily blown away by you when you take a deep breath. So you take a deep breath in, and as you exhale, you blow through your mouth out and see the words being blown away.

Now that may seem trite and a bit too simplistic, and so, now we get to the more interesting and challenging part, part four, or step four in this process. And that step is to open yourself up to possibilities that you cannot even imagine. We want you to go beyond the limitation that is built into your mind, and in order to do that, you need to operate outside of your mental processes. And so, you just feel yourself opening up like a flower that receives sunlight and rain, but you are opening up to new ideas, new thoughts, new beliefs, new expectations, new vibrations. You can receive energies that hold higher vibrations than what you were fed when you were a child.

And then the fifth and final step is to relax. Relax into the knowing that you’ve done the work. Relax and receive what is coming to you that is new, exciting, interesting, and limitless. The more you can relax and let things come to you in all shapes and sizes, the more time that you have then to enjoy your creations, to enjoy living in the realm of infinite possibilities.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”