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Mary: Anxiety and Despair

Mary: Anxiety and Despair

Dear sons and daughters of planet Earth! AM MARY!

At this moment, I bring that mantle and place it on each one of you, enveloping each one of you in my energy and in my Love. Use my mantle, it is my gift. Think of it as something that will bring you calm, warmth, joy and much, much Love.

My sons and daughters, face everything naturally, calmly. There is a rush to evolve, a rush to be ready. But I would say to each one of you that the rush, the anxiety and the desperation to do anything that leads to evolution will slow you down. Because there is a lesson to be learned there, everything has to be seen calmly, with peace in the heart, not with despair, with anxiety, wanting it to happen at any cost.

What is balance? It's you being centered in the here and now, not tomorrow, not the past, it's here, in the present moment. Learn to live in the moment, learn that when something doesn't happen at the moment you want, stop, take a deep breath and say to yourself: "This will come at the right time". If you get used to doing this, you fight anxiety, despair for anything.

My sons and daughters, going to the Fifth Dimension is not a game for those who run the fastest, for those who will arrive first. There is no dispute, there is no prize for who arrives first. So why so much anxiety, so much despair for each thing that appears? Have patience, I ask you why the despair and anxiety?

Everything we do has no deadline, no obligation, it's in your time, it's in your heart's time. So why the despair and anxiety? The fear of losing? No, it's the ego saying, “Run. Run because otherwise you stay behind, everyone walks and you stay”. And then you despair, you get anxious, because you have to, because you have to, because it has to be at that moment. What do you do with your energy when you act this way? You mess up your whole body, because anxiety is one of the worst feelings for your physical bodies. Because it causes an immense imbalance in each cell, because they need to take actions that were not ready at that moment, they need to accelerate, they need to go beyond, they need to skip steps, to meet what you want. So, what's the use of so much anxiety, what's the use of so much despair?

My sons and daughters, learn calmness, learn serenity, learn to live in the here and now. If something you really want doesn't happen right now or at the moment you want, take a deep breath, tell the ego to shut up and repeat to yourself: "This will come in the right time of Father/Mother God!". Done, it's over. You delivered that on the right timeline at the right time. Don't listen to the ego, which keeps screaming that you need to do it urgently, because otherwise you will be left behind.

Nothing is a gymkhana, there is no championship, there is no tournament of who arrives first or arrives faster. Learn to live with serenity, with Love in your heart. Everything you despair, you have no patience with anything and then what do you do? They disturb everyone, so I can help you solve it now.

Because you don't want to waste time, trying to understand, trying to do it in your time, in your learning. No, you mess with everyone to help you get where you want to go. What's the point? You've stressed yourself out, you've moved a bunch of people, who will probably do what you ask grudgingly, just to fulfill your request. And what do you get out of all this? You've learned? No, because you played for the other, what you had to do.

So, we stayed here, watching how each of you react to events. Some react naturally, they have already learned that everything has its time... “that if I don't succeed now, I will succeed tomorrow or later. And I will believe it. Tomorrow I will succeed”; and repeat it from the heart. And the next day, calmly, everything is resolved. “Ah, it didn’t solve it, tomorrow I will”. And this will be the search, it's not involving everyone in something that you don't even try to do, that you'll get somewhere.

My sons and daughters, learn to overcome obstacles, learn to look for exits on your own. Why do you always need to ask the other for help, why? Is the other available to you? No, it's not. No one is, but you push something to the other that you were the one who had to do. As Miguel always says: Let's get off the grid, let's go beyond our own limits, let's learn to find the exits without involving anyone, yes put yourself like: “Oh, I can't. Oh, I don't know how to do it. Oh, that. Oh, that”. Always a poor thing, who always needs someone to do things with, why? Because you don't want to learn or because it's more comfortable to play for someone else to do.

I would say the second answer is the one that fills most of you.

My sons and daughters, there is no time to learn, there is no time to want to go beyond what you do not know, it does not exist. Stop playing poor people, stop playing silly and always waiting for other people's help. Just think about this: the other has his assignments, he has his tasks and you are putting just one more in his lap. Because you didn't even bother trying to look for it, trying to solve it. "No. I'm not going to do that; I'm going to ask for help and that's it”. That's how you act.

They never want to learn anything because there will always be one who will do it for you. Understand that in this way, both sides are wrong; the one who asks and the one who does. Because the one who does it is helping that other to stay in the network, never looking for the way, always being sure that someone will do it for him.

My sons and daughters, there may come a time in the future when there is no one around and what will you do? Are you going to sit down and cry or are you going to get up and try to find a way out? Because you are used to everything, asking for help, anything asks for help, why? So, everything we do has a purpose, everything we do has a why, and within all these aspects there is learning for you. Stop playing your problems for others to solve, it's your problem, not the other's, learn that.

My sons and daughters, the other already has his own problems, there is no need to have another one, because you are putting it in his hands, something you could do. But because I'm used to thinking that: “I don't know. I am unable. I can't do it”, he always pushes towards the other. My sons and daughters have already realized that this is also a lesson. Learn to fend for yourself, look for solutions, ask for help to learn, not for them to do it for you.

There is still a long way to go for all of you and it is these small points that build a weak or strong journey. Because those who depend on each other for everything are not building a strong path, they are building with cotton walls and that in the first rain, that goes away because they are not strong walls. Seek your own answers, seek your learnings, stop depending on the other and, above all, don't put a problem in the other's lap that he didn't ask to solve. Are you putting it on his lap, he asked? No, he didn't ask, but you went there and put it on his lap: “Do it for me”. Why isn't it comfortable? You're swinging in the hammock and he's full of things to do, because you and a lot more put things in his hands.

My sons and daughters, wake up, leave the network, start looking for your ways, start acting with your own legs, with your own minds, stop depending on others. It's everyone's journey, why involve others in your journey? There are certain things that cannot be passed on to the other, they are your responsibility. Look at you my sons and daughters, why so much anxiety, why so much despair?

We are not in a gymkhana, we are in a moment of heart, pure heart. And the heart is calm, the heart is peace, the heart is harmony, the heart is balance, this is not despair, this is not heart. Let's calm the minds, let's learn to look at everything in the here and now. It couldn't be now, tomorrow will be. Always trusting that tomorrow will be and with that you learn to accept the moment, to accept that the world does not revolve around you, the world does not revolve around anyone. Who makes your walk is you, not the world.

So, if something doesn't arrive when you want it to, there's something there that you need to learn. What is it? Only you will know. So why the despair? If it hasn't arrived now, it's because it wasn't supposed to, it will arrive at the right time and you need to learn to wait for this right moment. And especially not involving the other, because that didn't come at the moment you wanted. The walk is yours, the time is within your walk, the other has nothing to do with it.

Stop my sons and daughters, seeing everything with despair and anxiety. Change that vibration to Love and calm and you will see how everything will be easier, because you will learn to understand that everything has the right time in the little things and, above all, stop putting it in the lap of others, something that you have to do .

Translation by CrystalWind.ca.


Angels and Light Therapies
Vania Rodrigues

Founder and Owner of Canal Anjos Luz e Terapias, Projeto LACAM and Um Toque Colibri, totaling more than 110,000 subscribers to my Youtube Channels, in which I share Channels and Messages received from various Beings of Light.
Founder and Director of the Nova Gaia Association - NGO in order to bring Christ Consciousness to the hearts of all.
Training: Magnified Healing® Course, Professional Radiesthesia, Crystal Therapy, Facilitator and Akashic Records Reader, Reiki - Level 3A and 3B -  Access Consciousness® Bars Practitioner

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