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5 Signs You're Disconnected from Your Higher Self

5 Signs You're Disconnected from Your Higher Self

5 Clear Signs You’re Disconnected from Your Higher Self (And How to Reconnect Today)

I know what it feels like to be fully aligned with my Higher Self—to be in the flow, receiving guidance effortlessly, feeling completely at peace with where I am, and knowing with absolute certainty that I am on my path. But I also know what it feels like to lose that connection, to feel like I am wandering in a fog, searching for something just beyond my grasp.

I’ve been through both extremes, and over the years, I’ve come to recognize the unmistakable signs that indicate when I have drifted away from my Higher Self. If you’re reading this and feeling disconnected, trust that this is temporary—because no matter how far you feel, your Higher Self is always there, waiting for you to realign, remember, and return.

Here’s how I’ve recognized when I’ve lost connection—and how I’ve found my way back:

  1. A Sense of Being “Lost” or Directionless

The first and most obvious sign is feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing anymore.

When I am connected to my Higher Self, there is clarity, even in uncertainty. I may not always know the exact details of what’s coming next, but I always feel like I’m moving in the right direction.

But when I lose that connection? Everything feels meaningless. I find myself questioning why I’m here, what my purpose is, whether I’m even on the right path.

  • I start doubting decisions that once felt so certain.
  • I feel like I’m wandering without a sense of purpose, as if I’m missing something vital but can’t quite put my finger on it.
  • Synchronicities fade, and instead of feeling like the universe is guiding me, I feel like I’m floating aimlessly.

When I recognize this, I pause and ask myself: When was the last time I truly listened?

Because often, the Higher Self hasn’t stopped speaking—it’s just that I’ve stopped paying attention.

  1. A Constant Feeling of Resistance or Struggle

Whenever I am not connected, life starts to feel like a constant uphill battle.

  • Small things irritate me.
  • The things I used to love suddenly feel draining.
  • Obstacles pile up, and it seems like everything is working against me.

But here’s what I’ve learned: The Higher Self never operates through force. It doesn’t push, it doesn’t fight—it simply flows. So when everything in my life starts feeling like a struggle, I know that I’m trying to move against my own divine current.

Whenever this happens, I ask myself:

“Am I resisting what my soul actually wants?”

Because more often than not, the struggle isn’t coming from the universe—it’s coming from me, from trying to force things that are not in alignment, from ignoring my own inner knowing.

  1. Feeling Emotionally Drained or Disconnected from Joy

One of the most beautiful things about being aligned with the Higher Self is that even in difficult moments, there is still light. There is still a sense of deep inner peace, joy, and gratitude—even if nothing externally has changed.

But when that connection fades? So does the joy.

  • Even the things that once made me feel alive feel empty.
  • Passions feel dull.
  • I start feeling numb, exhausted, or like I’m just going through the motions.

I have learned that my Higher Self never abandons me, but I can turn away from it—and when I do, I lose access to that inner well of joy. If I let this go on too long, it turns into deep emotional exhaustion, or even burnout.

The key here is reconnection—to ask:

“What used to light me up? What used to bring me joy? And when did I stop doing it?”

Because joy is one of the most powerful ways to call back the Higher Self.

  1. Overthinking & Lack of Inner Guidance

When I am deeply connected, decisions feel intuitive, effortless. I can feel my body responding—expansion for a “yes,” contraction for a “no.” I trust my instincts because I know my Higher Self is guiding me.

But when I’m not connected, everything turns into overanalysis and mental noise:

  • I overthink every decision, paralyzed by “what ifs.”
  • I constantly seek external validation instead of trusting my own knowing.
  • Self-doubt replaces intuition, and I feel like I can’t “hear” my inner voice anymore.

Whenever this happens, I stop looking outward and start looking inward. I quiet the mind, even if just for a few minutes, and ask:

“What do I already know, deep down?”

Because the Higher Self never leaves—it simply waits for us to listen again.

  1. Recurring Negative Patterns & Stagnation

This is a big one. When I am out of alignment with my Higher Self, I notice something disturbing:

I start repeating the same lessons over and over again.

  • The same types of relationships keep failing in the same ways.
  • The same frustrations keep coming up in my work, my emotions, my personal life.
  • I feel stuck, trapped in cycles that I thought I had already outgrown.

And this is because the Higher Self is always leading us toward growth—but if we refuse to listen, if we ignore the signs, then we will keep running into the same lessons until we finally integrate them.

When I recognize that I’m stuck in a loop, I stop and ask myself:

“What am I refusing to see? What am I resisting?”

Because the moment I acknowledge it, the moment I surrender, the lesson shifts, and so does my energy.

How to Reconnect with Your Higher Self

If you’re feeling disconnected, know that this is not permanent. Your Higher Self is never separate from you—it is always within you, waiting for you to return. Here’s what I do when I feel lost:

  • Get quiet.Sit in stillness, no distractions, and simply breathe. Your Higher Self speaks in silence, in intuition, in feelings.
  • Stop resisting. Ask yourself honestly: Am I trying to force something that is out of alignment?
  • Do what makes you feel alive.Joy, creativity, and play instantly reconnect you.
  • Let go of control.The Higher Self does not operate through force—it flows. Surrender, and allow.
    Trust yourself. The answers you seek are already within you. The more you trust, the louder your Higher Self will speak.

If you feel disconnected from your Higher Self right now, please don’t be hard on yourself. We all go through cycles of connection and disconnection—it’s part of being human.

But no matter how lost you feel, no matter how far away your Higher Self seems, it has never left you.

You are already on your way back.

All you have to do is listen.

Sending you lots of love and high vibrations! 

~Anna Merkaba – Distant Energy Healer- Channeler – Lightworker. 

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~Anna Merkaba – Distant Energy Healer- Channeler – Lightworker. To book a Healing Session with Anna and for more channeled messages to help you on your journey to self discovery visit : Sacred Ascension – Key of Life – DISCOVER YOUR TRUE SELF THROUGH THE VIBRATIONAL MESSAGES FROM BEHIND THE VEIL.

P.S. To help you on your journey I have written and published a book. It is now available for all of you in both hard copy and digital form. It is called “Mission To Earth – A Light workers guide to self mastery.” In it I explore topics such as: Why you are here and what you are doing on earth. How Starseeds get to earth to begin with. Why you feel the way you do. How to communicate with your guides. How to discover your life purpose. How to release everything and let it go. How to reprogram yourself in order to fully connect with your true essence. How to release old thinking patterns and institute a new reality into your life. How to change your life and make it what you want it to be, and most importantly how to find a link back HOME! There’s a lot more that I discuss in this book. I invite you to join me on this journey of self discovery as we explore together the “HOW,” the “WHY” and the “WHEN.” 

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