Neutrality…once a quiet virtue, now a misunderstood refuge. These days, it is less a symbol of integrity and more a veil drawn to obscure allegiance.

We speak of being “neutral” not to honor objectivity, but to avoid conflict, to withhold truth, to disappear into the soft underbelly of indecision. Once rooted in strength and clarity, its essence has been diluted by fear and convenience.

True neutrality is not passivity….it is an act of inner rigor, a rebellion against the pull of our personal narratives. It requires us to unclench the hand of our own history, to suspend our loyalties long enough to see clearly. It is not about being untouched by emotion but about not letting emotion bend the facts to our liking.

To be neutral is not to be detached, but to be sovereign. The truly neutral person refuses to let relationship, sentiment or popular consensus steer their judgment. They listen to both sides or none at all.  When they do listen, they do so with mental maturity…not to feed bias, not to gather ammunition…but to understand. In a world where gossip passes for dialogue and outrage stands in for justice…neutrality is a form of courage.

Neutrality is not impartiality’s twin; it is its evolution. Impartiality asks us to consider all sides fairly. Impartiality allows for feeling, as long as fairness is preserved. Neutrality demands a more profound silence – a stillness of motive, a stripping away of the self’s desire to win or to control.

We falter in neutrality because we fear it will make us invisible, but it is not absence; it is presence without agenda. It is the quiet strength of one who stands in the storm but is not moved by it. Yet we must not lie to ourselves. Declaring neutrality while secretly favoring one side is not noble restraint…it is cowardice in the cloak of principle. If we are to pursue this path, let us do so with honesty: confess your bias, observe it, and only then strive to transcend it. Begin with impartiality, for it is the training ground for the neutral mind.

Some will mock your stillness…let them. True neutrality is not a performance for the world but a discipline of the soul – those who laugh are the ones who often confuse stillness with the gray area – yet the gray area is truly the kingdom of congeniality.  While neutrality is still and constant, and impartiality strives to be fair, congeniality focuses on being likeable by all – and that is where the gray area can be found.  The gray area is not to be confused with the “Middle way”, often spoken of by sages – the middle way refers to balance, and congeniality knows nothing about that. John Vice was right when he said neutrality cannot be defined…it is not a thing but the shape left behind when bias exits the room. It is the pause between reactions, the breath before judgment… a space hollowed out for truth to echo.

We are human and our experiences do shape our perspectives. Perhaps we are not ready to be neutral, but we can at least strive to be honest about this, and in doing so, gain the strength and congruency to at least nourish our ability to do our best to know when to practice impartiality. Hold that space, and while you nourish it and learn to exercise it correctly – be gentle and remember that is not your job to please everyone, nor are you here to be understood by everyone – and that’s more than okay…owning that very truth, will help you too little by little walk the middle way – honoring you spirit’s calling, and in doing so becoming whole. 

“Neutrality is not an essence; it is an absence. We must dance around it with enough synonyms and examples to be able to recognize when it ain’t present.”

Stay true to yourself, and remember that your journey toward fairness and neutrality is valuable, even if it’s challenging.

Sofia Falcone
I passionately believe one person can make a difference. I write from my own experiences and interests. It is my greatest hope that by writing about my own challenges and hopes, others may feel inspired to believe more in their inner power and to fully embrace themselves.

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