Do Opposites Really Attract?
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Your prayer causes you to focus, and the Law of Attraction causes everything in the Universe that’s in vibrational harmony with your focus to come to you. ~ Abraham-Hicks
Day and night are not opposites, only different aspects of the oneness
One of our readers sent us this letter a while back:
Hi John,
I hope all is well with you.
I would like to run a question (by) you. I trust your insights.
If Law of Attraction is working everywhere, where people and things tend to attract what is similar to them, why are humans attracted by the other sex, looking or even craving for features that are very different—even the opposite of ourselves, at least physically?
Here is Spirit’s and my response:
The answer to our reader’s question is simple—so simple, in fact, it’s easy to overlook. The key here is in this part of the question:
…why are humans attracted by the other sex, looking for or even craving for features that are very different—even the opposite of ourselves, at least physically?
When you are attracted to another person, or even a group of people, it is because you see, or sense in some way, something familiar in them. It’s familiar because what you’re seeing is a reflection of yourself and what is within you.
Even though the other person may appear outwardly, physically, opposite from you, it is just that—an appearance only.
Our reader talks about “the other sex.” Are you attracted to someone of the other (or opposite) sex because they are different from you?
The answer is, “No, you are attracted because you are the same in many ways, even if you are of the opposite sex. After all, all of you possess attributes of both sexes. You are far more the same than you are different.
As in the image above that John chose, night and day are simply just two sides of the same coin. They are different aspects of the same reality. They are not opposites.
The Law of Attraction operates perfectly at all times. However, it responds only to your vibration, not necessarily to your words or thoughts. It will bring you only what you are vibrationally “in sync” with.
For example, if you say you want to be healthy, but are always criticizing what’s “wrong” with your body, what is your primary vibration? It is certainly not health—it’s sickness. And that’s what the Law of Attraction will bring you.
As we said, the Law of Attraction works flawlessly, always. You always get what your primary vibration summons, even if it appears to be an “opposite.”
There is truly nothing opposite from you. Everything, everyone is simply one aspect of the oneness, of all that is.
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Do you believe opposites attract? What part does the Law of Attraction play in the choices we make every day of our lives?
Please share your thoughts with us below.
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Here are Esther Hicks and Abraham responding to a question about opposites attracting.

In the early 1980s John took a spiritual development course, and was introduced to his first spirit guide, Lydia. After Lydia arrived, three other guides also came to him: Archangel Michael, Tamarra, and Chief Joseph. Today these are John’s four main guides.
Besides his four main ones, John has various other guides. The entire group is really a multidimensional collective consciousness. John refers to the entire group simply as “Spirit.”
© Copyright 2016 John Cali. Reprinted with permission. All rights reserved.
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